
The Part of You That Has Never Been Spoken To
Body, soul, and spirit. The framework matters. It tells you that healing has to be layered because you are layered. But knowing what the three parts are is different from knowing how to reach each one. This article goes to the layer most Christians know the least about: the human spirit. What makes it different from the Holy Spirit. Its seven facets, and what happens when they are wounded or in captivity. The four-step process Bride Ministries coaches use to engage it. And what it looks like when the human spirit finally takes its God-given seat.
This article is a direct continuation of Inner Healing and Deliverance: Body, Soul, and Spirit. Readers new to this topic may want to start with what inner healing is and why it matters before going further.
The Human Spirit, Distinguished from the Holy Spirit
Many Christians have never been taught that the human spirit is its own thing. They think spirit means the Holy Spirit, full stop. The Bride Ministries framework is careful to separate the two.
- The Holy Spirit is God. He indwells believers, leads, comforts, and convicts.
- The human spirit is part of a person's humanity. It is the super-conscious part of you, created by God, made to commune with Him. It has a mind, a will, and emotions of its own.
The human spirit is not a backup soul. It is its own layer. It can be strong. It can be weak. It can be broken. Psalm 51:17 puts it in David's own words: "The sacrifices of God are a broken spirit, A broken and a contrite heart— These, O God, You will not despise." The Hebrew word translated broken is shabar, which means to shatter, to break into pieces, the way a vase smashes when it hits the floor. The human spirit can be shattered. It needs ministry.
Dr. Rob Ruckert, who has taught the human spirit alongside Daniel, describes the spirit this way:
“"Your spirit is light. It's like God taking a little bit of His light and fashioning your spirit out of that. You are made of the essence of God, and no one can take that away, because that is your essence. That is who you are."”
Two important things in that line. First, the spirit is made of light. God's own light, given as the material of a human being's deepest part. Second, the language of essence is used carefully. The spirit comes from essence. So does the soul. So does DNA. The heart is the interface; the essence is the source.
The Seven Facets of the Human Spirit
Romans 12 names seven motivational gifts: "Having then gifts differing according to the grace that is given to us, let us use them: if prophecy, let us prophesy in proportion to our faith; or ministry, let us use it in our ministering; he who teaches, in teaching; he who exhorts, in exhortation; he who gives, with liberality; he who leads, with diligence; he who shows mercy, with cheerfulness." (Romans 12:6-8).
Daniel and Dr. Ruckert teach those seven as facets of the human spirit. One is usually dominant in a person. The other six are still present. All seven can be strong, weak, in captivity, or in conflict with one another. A simple list of the seven:
- Prophet. Sees and declares.
- Servant. Notices needs and meets them.
- Teacher. Studies and explains.
- Exhorter. Encourages and stirs.
- Giver. Resources others.
- Ruler (or leader). Organizes and oversees.
- Mercy. Feels deeply with others.
In ministry to the human spirit, a coach will sometimes do a roll call through all seven facets. Some will respond strongly. Some will be quiet. Some will be in captivity, held by wounds or oppression, unable to function. The goal is for all seven to come into a place of health and freedom, working in harmony.
The Four-Step Process of Ministering to the Spirit
Dr. Rob Ruckert and Daniel teach a four-step process for ministering to the human spirit in the teaching "How to Minister to the Human Spirit." The structure, in plain terms, is four moves:
“Engage the spirit. Legitimize the spirit. Instruct the spirit. Direct the spirit. The goal is for the spirit to grow stronger and whole, out of captivity and into a place of strength, working in harmony, without conflict, as a team.”
A short walk through each step.
- Engage. Speak directly to the human spirit. Address it. Acknowledge that it is there. Many human spirits have not been spoken to in their owner's whole life.
- Legitimize. Welcome the spirit. Tell it that it is real, that it has a place, that it belongs in the person. Many spirits have been treated as if they did not exist or were not allowed to function.
- Instruct. Teach the spirit what its role is, what God designed it for, and what voice belongs to it (versus voices that have impersonated it).
- Direct. Set the spirit in motion. Send it into agreement with the Holy Spirit. Give it a job.
The work is not theatrical. It is steady. A spirit that has been silent for forty years does not always speak loudly the first time it is engaged. The work moves at the speed of the Holy Spirit.
Heart posture, not memory recall
A pastoral note that has to be said because it matters: a person does not have to remember their wounds or name their attackers to receive ministry to the spirit. The Holy Spirit reveals what is needed in the moment. The reader's job is heart posture, not memory recall. Invite Him. Trust Him. Let Him show what is there.
Pray with, not for
Spirit-level prayer is not intercession. A person cannot pray a spirit-level prayer on behalf of someone else, the way a person might pray a prayer of intercession for a friend. The human spirit being addressed has to be present, awake, and in agreement. That is why this ministry is done together, with a coach beside the person, not done over them while they sit silent.
The Seat of Dominion
When the seven facets of a person's spirit have come into health and strength (high marks across all seven, not just the dominant one), the spirit is able to take what Daniel and Dr. Ruckert call the seat of dominion. It is positioned in the human spirit, located behind the center of the forehead.
From that seat, the human spirit takes its God-given authority over the soul and the body, in alignment with the Holy Spirit. The conscious mind no longer runs the show alone. The spirit, made of God's light, leads. The soul cooperates. The body follows.
This is not abstract teaching. People who have walked this work describe the difference plainly: thoughts clear, decisions hold, emotions stabilize, the body settles. The person becomes more of themselves, not less.
How This Connects to Inner Healing and Deliverance
The reason to map all of this carefully is that inner healing and deliverance both have to reach all three layers to bring the kind of lasting freedom most readers came looking for.
- Body. Trauma lives in the body. So does shame, fear, and old patterns of holding pain. Ministry that ignores the body misses where the wounds are stored. Practices that calm and consecrate the body are part of the work.
- Soul. Inner healing meets traumatic memories, broken thought patterns, fractured emotions, and dissociated parts. Deliverance closes the doors that opened through willful sin or generational iniquity.
- Spirit. Ministry to the spirit engages, legitimizes, instructs, and directs each facet. Where the spirit is broken (Psalm 51:17), the work is to mend.
Paul writes, "Therefore, having these promises, beloved, let us cleanse ourselves from all filthiness of the flesh and spirit, perfecting holiness in the fear of God." (2 Corinthians 7:1). Body. Spirit. Both named. Both invited into wholeness.
The reason a one-tool approach often does not produce lasting freedom is not a failure of the tool. It is that the wound was not only in the tool's territory. Most people are layered, and most healing has to be layered, too.
Bride Ministries trains coaches to walk this kind of work through the School of Inner Healing and Deliverance at the Bride Ministries Institute. For those ready to go deeper, the next step is usually a conversation with a trained coach.
The good news of the gospel is bigger than the conscious mind. Jesus paid the price for the body, the soul, and the spirit. Healing is layered because we are layered. He goes to every level.
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